i do...totally!! im all heads over heels when it comes to fairy tales,n i now know why my lil' gal is soooo crazee bout prince,princess n stuffs...heheh,well,girl will always be girls,rite...
anyway,real life is no fairy tales,well,at least thats what most people believe in,or were told...but if i may intrude,i do belive that fairy tales can happen in real life,but of coz it may differ from the one that we used to read,but still with the same drill...how u may ask?
ok,in fairy tales,a decent girl who lives with her abusive stepmother n a stepsisters met a handsome prince,got married n live happily ever after...whilst in real life...u meet a man of ur dream,falling in lurve,get married n live together...happy or not,its up to the both of them as how they will make their life happily ever after... now,do u get what i mean??
but as some says,married life aint easy....marriage is not a bed of roses...there'll be hiccup here n there...but how u handle the issues is matter the most...mend it not end it,remember??
errr,sorry...im being emo here...NO,NO...im fine,ben's fine,WE'RE FINE!! alhamdulillah...
its juz intimidating as how people around me tend to go separate ways after years of together-ness..its freaking the hell out of me,of coz,i wont lie...i was there when the lurve bloom,when they tied the knot n so forth...but,who am i to critise...He knows better aight?? n im a strong believer in things happen for a reason...but,this things has made a real mess in my head,heheh...true...cant help myself from thinking bout it,bout them...BOUT US...*sigh*...
may ive a strength to always be there for the friends of mine that i lurve....for my darling ben,that will always be my lurve n hopefully lurve me back,heheh...n not to forget,my darling munchkins....coz from what i observed,when things falls apart its the children who suffered the most,without us ever knowing....hmmm....
i juz hope that me+ben could take this as a lesson that will help us thru our journey,our life as a partner...insyaAllah...
till then...
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omg i had this THING that u mentioned.. the was2 feeling, the uncertainty of marriage, the happines ever after questions.. like u read my mind! risau kan? That's y i often ask like really old couple HOW DO THEY DO IT?? it's not ez and it's definitely not a bed of roses. I have a longer way to go, looks like you're doing good with 3 kids lagi. i can never imagine with 2 pun!! How do u do it? Wat's the secret?
lana,coincidence ey? guess,every married women pon at one point cant help but thinking bout this matter,kan? wonder jugak how the old folks managed to sticks together till the very end kn? they made it looks easy peasy je...
secret??aint got one... :) but i do believe in healthy n good communication ,do not hold grudges,...
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