marley n me...

i know that some of u might say that im damn late,i knoww....but hey,at least ive got the chance to watch it though,be it later rather than none,hhehhe,nak menang gak tuh...

anyway,talks about the movie,i totally love it to bits,bes giler...n it feels real,well,at least i am,i can totally relate to the story...n what can i say bout jen & owen,they're wonderful,dont u think? i juz think that they portays a typical married couple,a typical domestic issues that everyday people like us (if i may say so...) feels likes we have something in common...all the ups n downs,tension n what not...

but my fav scene has to be when john n jen (a.k.a owen n jen) went thru a bad patches,n john went for a walk with sebastian (lovely eric dane,he's gorgeous dont u think? heheh,my ben goin to kill me for this,lol...) n sebastion asked john whether they going to get a divorced....n john said, "MEND IT,NOT END IT..." its deep,n its sooo trueee...i mean sometimes ones might thinks that by ending the relationship,problem's solved,easy huh?...which is we know it well that it is sooo wrong,even when the whole affairs was rather sordid,there's always a way to fix things up...

well,dont get me wrong,i know im not in a place to talk bout this matter,am not a pro either but watching this is like givin me something to ponder upon...marriage is not a bed of roses,even if its suke same suke,nor it isnt driving miss daisy...its like a live long journey that eventually made us into a more mature person,n maybe someday one might looked back n think that its actually a journey that one cant forget n wouldnt change it for anything in the world...im not going to argue that there might be a couple who dont get into fights (i didnt means physical here) with their other half,its up to the couple as how they handle the issues,but im guessing that every couple will at least went thru a hiccup or a decent argument,but when u talked things thru u'll be amazed how things could turned up,coz holding grudges wont take u further,trust me on this (poyo jek,must be my auntie rose's hormones nih...)

so,to my darling Ben,thanx for sticking up with me all these years,i know i can be such a pain in d a** sometimes,or maybe most of d time,but,u know this long before we got married dont cha? lol...but still,u even bare with me regardless how weird i can be...u always make fun when i color coded ur shirt's arrangement,or even worst when i used different hangers for shirt,pants n such (dunno y i did this,but cant help it...is it OCD? hope not..hisshh)...u lit me when im stressed out,...u always gimme d smirks,but hey,thanx..for thats what i luv bout u...even tho u think im a bit odd,but u luv me still...i know there's still a long journey ahead,but with u around,insyaAllah...we'll get thru it,AMIN!!

ich liebe dich..

when they r good...

they juz good...i mean really really good....

n i happened to stumble upon these few pics,hehhe..

juz look how different they are back then...

my munchkins growing up,n they doin it in a fast pace...

till then...

an avid fan...

i was wondering whether,its juz my munchkins,or is it all kids will respond as same as what u will eventually see,from the pics below...this incident happened during lunch time after our weekend 's groceries hunting...soon as we found our seat,my forever energetic munchkins had their eyes glued in front of the TV,they look as if they're watching the most exciting program on earth,seems like they dont wanna missed even a momment of this 'show'...we even caught adlan terlopong2,i bet at that time,if its going to be a group of flies flying into his mouth,he wont even noticed...thats how focused my two munchkins at that time,which is rarely seen...

didnt i tell u? they juz got hooked up...

they even left the drinks untouched...super focused nih...

but adia managed to gobble some ice cube into her mouth,look at her ballooned cheeck...

n still glued,but at this point they managed to eat the fries.

even without even looking at it,impressive...dont u think...

curious to know by now? well,fret no more,for i will reveal the culprit behind this weird behaviour...caused by none other than this guy,man of few words...do u know him? well,obviously my munchkins did...n they really likes him...taraaaa!!

ITS MR BEAN,people...

till then...

im IT!

3 THINGS.
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The Instruction:
Now, here's what you're supposed to do...and please do not spoil the fun. Start a new note, delete my answers and put in your own. Tag all your friends and tell them to tag you. The theory is that you will learn a lot of little known things about each other.

Three Names I go by...
1. Jazz
2. Girl
3. Ayin

Three Jobs I have had in my life...
1. Secretary
2. Cashier (while waiting for SPM's result...)
3. ive only had two ;p

Three Places I have lived...
1. Miri,Sarawak
2. Senai,Johor
3. Sri Gombak,Selangor

Three TV Shows that I watch...
1. The Duke
2. Project Runway
3. Boys over Flowers ( i heart Jun Pyo *drool* ....)

Three Places I have been...
1. Singapore
2. Thailand
3. Zooming Malaysia...jalan2 cari makan...

People that e-mail me regularly...
1. My lil' bro
2. My galfrens
3. My lil' bro's awex,Miss Ceila....

Three of my favorite foods...
1. Laksa (im a truly kedahan,waddaya expect??...)
2. Sushi (even my ben has developed d same interest,heheheh,am i good or what?? ;p)
3. All kind of dessert,heaven!!

Three things I would like to do...
1. Spend a nite at The CLub,..OMG!! i luv that place...
2. Holiday abroad,hmmm...
3. To kick up some business

Three friends I think will respond...
1. Mommy of Triplets (if she's not that tied up...;) )
2. Nana (for its been a while...)
3. who ever that thinks that she's a fren of mine n have lotsa time to do this... =)

Things I am looking forward to...
1. A brand new lappy
2. Vacation
3. my birthday,heheheh...

taraaa!! easy peasy ,hehhehe...

till then...

simply ignorant...

yesterday,i promised the munchkins to take them to the playground,so somewhere around 5.30pm i drove them to the park,but half way thru,its pouring,so we have to turn back...need i tell u more?of coz they were devastated...its been ages since i took them there,heheh,despite trying to lead a much healthy huh? (but still,i let them play within the compund daily ...)...we reached home with munchkins being unhappy,esp adia..,she's sulking for she think that i broke my promised,iskkk...lucky for me that adlan's big enough to know that it was not intentionally..

so,at nite,ben n i took the munchkins to one of the indoor playground here...when we reached,there's nobody there...so,they happily running around like nobody business...im relieved to see smile on their faces,again,pheww...i feel terrible at first,coz ive made a promise n dont really deliver it...i dont wanna be the terrible mother,who makes empty promises...n i dont intend too...

but,eventually,the place was swamped with people,esp kids...so,my munchkins kinda slowed down a bit,they not really into big crowd,not a people person,hehehhe,juz like their parent i must say...hehehe,my sentiment exactly...they slowly withdraw from the crowd...

but,before they withdrew,came this group of kids...they came crashing into the playground without any signal,juz like that...i know kids being kids,but there are smaller kids there much to my concerns...they simply cut the queue,starts climbing on everything that not supposed to be climbed,n to my anoyance,they starts to kangkang on the slide,so every kids whose coming down the slide has to go thru their kelengkang ,can u imagine this?? im boiling inside,but there's nothin i could do for there are two adult who's watching over them,but doing nothing to stop it...grrr...how thoughtless...

then,came this guy,who i assume to be their father (coz one of the gal starts to address him papa or something,not sure...) so,i feel kinda relieved for at last he came to his senses and popped injuz to give his precious a few words...but to my dismay,he took out his camera n for non stop snapping pics of his offsprings,arghhh...im so pissed by now,but hopeless for i couldnt do anything...n my munchkins insisted on going down the slide..need i say more?

since i couldnt do much,n ben also cant stand it anymore,we try to talk to the munchkins n went back home,pronto...phewww...what a nitemare if u ask me...its irritating,totally..

its not im being irrational about kids being kids,but somehow i believed that they can be thought n as a parent u have to instill good manners,or at least how to behave in public...well im not a perfect parent myself,n,i know well that sometimes they can be on ur nerves,n in my case,most of d time...but still,u ought to tell them what they can or cannot do in public places,esp playground,for u have to share with others...juz a simple explanation,no need to elaborate coz u dont want them to get confused over things...

anyway,im not being judgemental or what,im juz giving my two cents worths here,n by no other means trying to criticised others parenting skills,or something...juz wanna let out some steam,hehehhe...im chill now...

till then...

bend it like adia...

she juz couldnt sit still,not even for a minute,haisshh...thats my gal...n this action was taken few days ago,when me+ben buzy watching tv...suddenly we heard a cry for help n to our surprised (not really if u asked me,she's been doin practically thousand of actions n am not really surprised anymore...)

but,much to our annoyance,she was smiling...grrr...n beaming with smile as daddy tried to snap a pics of her's ;p ...

till then...

family day...final episode...

sorry for its taking me too long to finish it up...well,its not much happened on the last day we are there...rite after had our so-so breakfast,n half n hour photo session later,we all went to the go cart pit...all the daddies n the bachelors are getting excited to unleash the kids in them when they agrees for a mini race,what else would they do,its big boys thingy i must say...

my darling ben...so hamilton,eat ur heart out !! ;p

i can tell u,the kids are not really having fun here,hehehe...they juz whining n starts making faces,coz its very humid,even tho we're sitting under the shades provided...its really hot,even i cant stand the heat,phewww...talking bout global warming eh? )

after a good one hour or so,n few bucks has been spend on buying some useless toys at the stall's there,the guys finally decided that its time to entertain the kids ...hmmm,luckily they remember the lil' tots here...for they were busy having fun themselves while letting all the mommies do the dirty works n ruined our carefully done makeup... hmmm...so,we took the munchkins to go swimming,again...more swimming n more swimming,till i can clearly see my munchkins getting tanner,uikkss...thats when ive to asked them to get out of the water,which is not an easy tasks..ive to bribe them with everything that came across my mind...

but all in all,we do have fun...esp the munchkins...

till then..

lil' chef...

before my broadband's went haywire again,heheh..juz wanna share with uolllsss what my boy made during his field trip to pizza hut,yesterday,with the help of the real chef,of coz....aint it cute ? he said,he juz like ratatouile,lol...so funny...

till then...

his way,or the highway...

supposedly,we planned to celebrate my boy's birthday at his school yesterday,but since the school already organised a field trip to pizza hut (interesting choice huh? ) so we decided to do it today,during their snack time...nothing fancy juz a cake,few kuih n some drinks...n not to forget the goodies bags...

juz a peek into whats inside the goodies bags... ;p

its funny to see how the kids getting so excited,esp when my ben started to light the candle,they were crowded the table till the teacher has to shout a bit,hehhee...kids being kids huh? they're curious bout everything...anyway,im so happy that it went great,n furthermore my boy's happiness is all i need...its nothing elaborate bout the party,nothing compared to anything i've read here in this blogging world,but its worth more than anything in the world to see my boy's happy face,grinning,when his classmate singing the birthday song to him...priceless...

n also thanx to my ben,who's willing to squeeze some of his precious time off work juz to be with us,to share the fun...i know he's freaking busy at this time of year,but for the love of his life,he's making an effort to be here with us...we luv u,daddy...ur d best!! =)

my two lil' munchkins...

till then...

lil' celebration...

last nite,upon my boy's request,we went to jusco to get something for his birthday...as usual le,it has to be hand picked by the birthday boy himself (since his fav character may vary from time to time,its better for him to decide what he wants,for i definitely trying to avoid any dramas afterward...) so that he can choose what he wants...at first im a bit hesitate coz he's not feeling very well,mild fever...but,its his birthday n i hate to dissapointed my boy,so,rite after maghrib prayer off we went to jusco (coz its nearby,hehheh...)...

since he already knew what he wants...fyi,he's been talking about having his own B-daman shooter (if im not mistaken,i dunno what its called...silly me...) few beeks back,so,we went straight to that particular section...but,to his dismay,the character that he's crazee about was out of stock n he refused to have other than the want he desired...so,thats when things went a bit out of control...he was rambang mata with all selection of toys on display...while me n my ben was starting to loose patience,coz our tummy starts to sing rock's songs,heheh...cut the story short,45mins later he settled down with a dragonball's figurine instead,really out of the blue...coz he never mentioned it...

he choosed vegetto,instead of the ever famous goku...

she even get away with a toy herself... haishhh...

then,he decided that he wants to eat chicken...so off we go to nando's,pronto... ;p i dont really mind,its one of our fav place though...doesnt need a fancy restaurant to make it feel avant garde or anything,by juz being there with 3 of the most important people in my life is all i ever want...im so happy,seeing my kids happy...n not to forget my ben too...alhamdulillah...

me n my lil' man...hmmm....

till then...

Happy 5th Birthday,Adlan...

when adlan turns 5...

OMG!! as i tried to update my blog,i totally forgot that its already 1.15am,n most of all its my boy's 5th birthday...time does flies,n he is five today...my baby boy,or shall i say my lil' man...heheh...n he too excited bout his own birthday...been talking bout it almost everyday...n he even did a countdown,how sweet...

n this year,like previous year,he wants to celebrate it at school,again,with all his newly found frens...at first,me n my ben thot of doing it somewhere at fast food chains or other places,but he refused..saying that he wants his frens to sing the birthday song,haisshhh...so last monday,took him to secret recipe to choose the design for his cake,n this year he picks ben 10,obviously...luckily the store manager succesfully coax him to get the black forest cake,instead of the same banana choc like last year...well,this is for making the design that he choose will stand out compared more,since mostly all of the background for ben 10's design are dark color,so white cake would be superb....

unlike last year,this year,me n my gal has been assigned by my big ben to do all the shopping for the goodies bags,for he's too busy meeting n such...but,we're fine,besides i do have a good company,my gal help me decided when i cant ...such a good helper...luckily we will only do 30's bags,so not so much of a trouble finding things in small scale...

anyway,day like this remind me of how fast time flies...even tho im with him everyday,24/7,but it still seems not enough for me to realize that my baby boy will soon grow to be a big boy,a teenager to be precised...n he will no longer need me to hug him everyday,nor kiss him...will be too shame to plant a kiss on my cheek when i dropped him off at school...or maybe,refused to be driven to school by mommy,iskkk...touch wood!! im not in denial,but by thinking that my baby will no longer need me juz gimme heartache... iskk...

still remember the first time i saw him,rite after my gynea vacummed him out,yup,u heard me allrite,he was vacummed out coz ive been in the labour room for too long n exhausted (fyi,i was admitted on morning the april 1st but my baby refused to come out,n my ben thot that the baby was doing some pranks on me,well,obviously it was april fools rite? ) ...n my ben showed to me our cone head baby boy,he's small...borned at 9.42am, april 2nd n only weighing 2.65kgs,he's as light as a doll...alhamdulillah,he's healthy,for thats what worries me most,n most importantly he's my baby...i dont care if he's heavy as a stone or as light as a feather,he's my baby...our baby...

anyway,all i wanted to say,happy 5th birthday,darling...mommy will always luv u,no matter what,n so as daddy...n not to forget yaya,n the reast of the clan...we always love u,always was n forever will be...doa' mommy will always be with u...

till then...

family day...part 2

as i said earlier,my kids couldnt wait to go swimming,esp my boy...as soon as i said yes,he's jumping in joy,n my gal follow suit...ive loads of pics of them swimming,but as u know,my broadband still going haywire,so,juz a few will do the justice...

at nite,we have a bbq at poolside...my munchkins really have fun,esp with sofia's around (liza's daugther,she's gorgeous....)..n she really a big help...my lil' munchkins look up to her,esp my gal...so,thanx to sofia,me n my ben,for the first time had an uninterrupted dinner,how cool is that!!

adia n sofia...

fyi,they were screaming 'hannah montana' as i snapped the pics...

sofia,she's an avid fan of hannah montana's series,i wonder if my gal will become one? =)

n here's my munchkins with their prizes...they're excited to unwrapped the gift as well...n we also get a few hampers,lucky us,hehehe...

to be continued...

family day....part 1

my hubby's office had organised a family day last weekend...so,somewhere after lunch on saturday we headed off to palm springs,pd...never been there,so kinda excited to see the place with my own eye,hehehe,...fyi,been told by my galfren,liza,that that place is a bit creepy,spooky more like it,what with all the abandoned buildings around...well,thats based on her visit to the place a few years back...done some googling,but not much of a help either...so,i juz settled with a thot that it couldnt be worst,or wouldnt be so bad given that the organiser knows well that there will be kids so,they might have choosed a decent place for us...and indeed,its not that bad...

we arrived there around 4pm n checked ourselves in a quite spacious room,but with a few problem; 1)the bed was too small for our pint sized family of four, 2)the aircond's not working but we left the room absentmindedly coz we need to be at the activity area for some games...n btw,we were split into four groups earlier,n us were in lucky Liverpool,yeahhh...n my darling Ben (my other half of coz,who else can it be.... ;p) told me that we were supposed to wear red shirt,iskkk...so,ive been on a hunt for a red shirt for a few days before that,pheww...managed to get 'em,with the company of my BFF,thanx u for the time,xoxo....

im glad that this year,my boy is big enough to joined all the games n having so much fun,so as my gal...actually,im not worried bout her much coz knowing that she loves to join in regardless if she's entitled or not,hehhe...a bit semberono ini budak,main belasah jek...thats my gal...

getting ready for their first game,lari sambil bawa bola pingpong dalam sudu...n my Ben managed to make our boy disqualified from the race,lol...how so? he told adlan to hold the ball so that it wont fell off the spoon,genius rite ?? n adlan managed to came first at the finish line,funny eh?

this is actually their second game of the day,collecting as many sweets in juz one minute,i tell u,all the parents were screaming while giving instructions for their kids for how they could take as much sweets as they can,n thats includes us,hehehh...its funny though to see my boy so determined to get as many sweets,by using his shirt as a sack or something...but,my gal stole the moment by doing it her way,slowly pick up a sweet n carefully put it inside her pocket (as told by mommy... :p ) ...but,she managed to get bout 5-6 sweets if im not mistaken,not bad huh?...

well,after a tiring game,giving that its so hot n the pool juz nearby,my boy juz couldnt help himself n starts making a face...he juz couldnt wait any longer to dive in....

to be continued...