Thursday, April 9, 2009

simply ignorant...

yesterday,i promised the munchkins to take them to the playground,so somewhere around 5.30pm i drove them to the park,but half way thru,its pouring,so we have to turn back...need i tell u more?of coz they were devastated...its been ages since i took them there,heheh,despite trying to lead a much healthy huh? (but still,i let them play within the compund daily ...)...we reached home with munchkins being unhappy,esp adia..,she's sulking for she think that i broke my promised,iskkk...lucky for me that adlan's big enough to know that it was not intentionally..

so,at nite,ben n i took the munchkins to one of the indoor playground here...when we reached,there's nobody there...so,they happily running around like nobody business...im relieved to see smile on their faces,again,pheww...i feel terrible at first,coz ive made a promise n dont really deliver it...i dont wanna be the terrible mother,who makes empty promises...n i dont intend too...

but,eventually,the place was swamped with people,esp kids...so,my munchkins kinda slowed down a bit,they not really into big crowd,not a people person,hehehhe,juz like their parent i must say...hehehe,my sentiment exactly...they slowly withdraw from the crowd...

but,before they withdrew,came this group of kids...they came crashing into the playground without any signal,juz like that...i know kids being kids,but there are smaller kids there much to my concerns...they simply cut the queue,starts climbing on everything that not supposed to be climbed,n to my anoyance,they starts to kangkang on the slide,so every kids whose coming down the slide has to go thru their kelengkang ,can u imagine this?? im boiling inside,but there's nothin i could do for there are two adult who's watching over them,but doing nothing to stop it...grrr...how thoughtless...

then,came this guy,who i assume to be their father (coz one of the gal starts to address him papa or something,not sure...) so,i feel kinda relieved for at last he came to his senses and popped injuz to give his precious a few words...but to my dismay,he took out his camera n for non stop snapping pics of his offsprings,arghhh...im so pissed by now,but hopeless for i couldnt do anything...n my munchkins insisted on going down the slide..need i say more?

since i couldnt do much,n ben also cant stand it anymore,we try to talk to the munchkins n went back home,pronto...phewww...what a nitemare if u ask me...its irritating,totally..

its not im being irrational about kids being kids,but somehow i believed that they can be thought n as a parent u have to instill good manners,or at least how to behave in public...well im not a perfect parent myself,n,i know well that sometimes they can be on ur nerves,n in my case,most of d time...but still,u ought to tell them what they can or cannot do in public places,esp playground,for u have to share with others...juz a simple explanation,no need to elaborate coz u dont want them to get confused over things...

anyway,im not being judgemental or what,im juz giving my two cents worths here,n by no other means trying to criticised others parenting skills,or something...juz wanna let out some steam,hehehhe...im chill now...

till then...

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