Wednesday, April 22, 2009

marley n me...

i know that some of u might say that im damn late,i knoww....but hey,at least ive got the chance to watch it though,be it later rather than none,hhehhe,nak menang gak tuh...

anyway,talks about the movie,i totally love it to bits,bes giler...n it feels real,well,at least i am,i can totally relate to the story...n what can i say bout jen & owen,they're wonderful,dont u think? i juz think that they portays a typical married couple,a typical domestic issues that everyday people like us (if i may say so...) feels likes we have something in common...all the ups n downs,tension n what not...

but my fav scene has to be when john n jen (a.k.a owen n jen) went thru a bad patches,n john went for a walk with sebastian (lovely eric dane,he's gorgeous dont u think? heheh,my ben goin to kill me for this,lol...) n sebastion asked john whether they going to get a divorced....n john said, "MEND IT,NOT END IT..." its deep,n its sooo trueee...i mean sometimes ones might thinks that by ending the relationship,problem's solved,easy huh?...which is we know it well that it is sooo wrong,even when the whole affairs was rather sordid,there's always a way to fix things up...

well,dont get me wrong,i know im not in a place to talk bout this matter,am not a pro either but watching this is like givin me something to ponder upon...marriage is not a bed of roses,even if its suke same suke,nor it isnt driving miss daisy...its like a live long journey that eventually made us into a more mature person,n maybe someday one might looked back n think that its actually a journey that one cant forget n wouldnt change it for anything in the world...im not going to argue that there might be a couple who dont get into fights (i didnt means physical here) with their other half,its up to the couple as how they handle the issues,but im guessing that every couple will at least went thru a hiccup or a decent argument,but when u talked things thru u'll be amazed how things could turned up,coz holding grudges wont take u further,trust me on this (poyo jek,must be my auntie rose's hormones nih...)

so,to my darling Ben,thanx for sticking up with me all these years,i know i can be such a pain in d a** sometimes,or maybe most of d time,but,u know this long before we got married dont cha? lol...but still,u even bare with me regardless how weird i can be...u always make fun when i color coded ur shirt's arrangement,or even worst when i used different hangers for shirt,pants n such (dunno y i did this,but cant help it...is it OCD? hope not..hisshh)...u lit me when im stressed out,...u always gimme d smirks,but hey,thanx..for thats what i luv bout u...even tho u think im a bit odd,but u luv me still...i know there's still a long journey ahead,but with u around,insyaAllah...we'll get thru it,AMIN!!

ich liebe dich..

2 comments:

shoe-addict-mom said...

babe,
i feel u.
i understand u.
and im not one of those couples who dont get into fights! :)

adaho said...

babe,
i know u will,i juz know...tq again...

btw,when r u going to be my follower nih? ;p